Years it took me to figure out stuff

14 Dec, 2025

Years it took me to figure out

1. People - 25 - What they can about and what motivates them

2. Working out - 27 – Fun, athletic, really pushes you

3. Learning - 20 - As an adult with limited time, energy, and a closed heart

4. Connecting with others - 20 - Going beyond pleasantries

5. Handling rejection - 24 - Why it can be fun for me

6. Handling uncertainty - 26 - Why it can be fun for me

7. Agency - 28 - Momentum is the only thing worth protecting

8. Self regulation - 28 - You mind responds to your body

9. Boundaries - 28 - I can't have everything, netiher can you

10. Sleep - 29 (🤞) - Biologically screwed

11. Food - 30 (🤞🤞) - Lack of discipline

12. Finances - 30 (🤞) - Asymmetric upside

13. Chilling out - 35 (🤞🤞🤞) - My CNS needs to change